How do we register as a couple or a group?

Due to the unique dynamics created by polyamorous relationships, the method used to set up couples took a little bit of work.  In this case, you must set up each person in the relationship as an individual.  Once this is done, you can then set up a "couple" or "group" profile, which adds each of those individual profiles to the group.  The couple or group profile will need its own email address.

Why do I need a unique email address for a "couple" or "group" account?

In most relationships, you value your own privacy, including having your own private email address.  With the registration we require, you maintain the ability to set up each individual account with your own email address, and then can use a separate email address that every member of the relationship has access to.

Why is the minimum age set to 21 for this site?

We set the minimum age to 21 for a number of reasons.  First and foremost, our site deals with subjects of a sensitive matter, and in many countries, the age of majority is 21.  In order to avoid the possible legal trouble that could be involved, we chose to limit this site to those over 21.

Secondly, as this site is dedicated to helping the polyamorous community find meaningful, loving relationships, we expect a certain level of maturity of our users.  While we are not trying to say that an 18 year old cannot be mature and responsible about a loving relationship, we find that to be an exception rather than the rule.

How do I change my email address or password?

You can change your email address on the "edit your profile" page. Here you can change some other information including search preferences, address and other preferences about your daily routines, habits, hobbies etc.

After you've made your changes, click "Save" at the bottom of the page to save.

What is the purpose behind Instant Messenger, how do i get benefit from it?

This application is a faster way of communicating to other members of the site who are online. Its lists all the members who are online. When you send message, recipient will receive message and would reply. If unfortunately recipient doesn't receive message for some reason, then that message will be send to his onsite message Inbox.

How does "My Matches" works?

My Matches works according to the basic profile and "search preferences" at the bottom of the "edit profile" page.

Do people actually meet on your site?

People do actually meet through LoveMany.com, and have formed some wonderful relationships.

When someone emails me, where does the email go and how do I respond?

When a member sends you a note, it goes straight into your onsite message Inbox. We then send an email to your personal email address to let you know that it's there.

To read the note, simply login to the site and go to your Inbox. If you decide to write back, simply click "reply", write your own note and send away. Your note will go straight into the member's onsite Inbox, and we'll let them know it's there with an email to their personal email address.

All communications with other members stay onsite so that you never have to give out any personal information until you feel completely ready. Then when you are, you can exchange phone numbers and even meet in person.

How do I edit my profile? How do I hide my profile?

To update your profile, click "Edit Profile" in Members Panel menu. Be sure to save your changes at the bottom of the screen when you're done.

Try to put your best foot forward with at least one photo and snappy, detailed essays about your interests. The photo is key since most people feel more comfortable writing to members they can see. Try to stay positive in your essays and let the real you shine.

To hide your profile, select "No" for the option "Other members can see when I'm online?" on the "Edit Profile" page  . Keep in mind, however, that members who are most active on the site keep their profile visible in all places because it ups their chances of connecting with people. And you never know, someone special may be looking for you and never get to find you if your profile is hidden.

When I suspend my membership, does it end my subscription? Can I put my subscription on hold?

No. Once you purchase a subscription, it will remain active for the remainder of your initial term.